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Wednesday, July 12, 2006

To a blogger friend

I'm not good in words of condolence, so i just wanna tell you that i'm deeply sorry for your loss, and i fully understand how it felt to have lost someone you love.

Losing someone always hurts, whether we lose the person to time, distance, or Death. I can't say for sure if the pain will ever go away, but i'm very sure that it will lessen as time goes by.

Sometimes i think maybe time doesn't really heal everything completely like what people always say. But i think it's exactly the twitch that we feel in our hearts whenever we think of someone that makes the someone so special.

If we love someone truly and deeply, it's never possible to ever forget the person and not feel a thing when we think of him/her. Knowing this, we accept that every happy memory carries with it some pain, and it's exactly this bitter sweet taste of memory that manifests the love that has filled our lives. It's a testimony of how deeply the person has touched our lives and how incomplete our lives would be if all the moments spent together had never happened, no matter how brief the moments may be.

Life goes on, so do memories. It may be a cliche yet nonetheless true. Our loved ones may no longer be with us anymore in earthly form, but they will live on as long as we have them in our memories.

With that, i wish you well and happy. Take care, my friend.

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